How to help a personality disorder?

Sometimes the best way to help someone else is to help ourselves first. The organization NAMI...National Alliance on Mental Illness...has chapters in every state...go on their website....www.nami.org...to see what cities or towns in your state NAMI is located. They have help for people who are mentally ill and also some help for family and friends of the mentally ill. I don't know if all NAMI chapters have them, but I know some that do, have Family/Friends cles (don't know exactly what they're called)....but it's to help and support people who don't really know what to do in cirstances surrounding the friend or family member. Hope it will help.