IS HE DAMN STUPID or WHAT.. PLEASE TELL ME!!?

Ok everyone has different opinions on this particular situation that people can be in. But I also feel that not everyones situation is exactly the same as people are different etc & u can't tell everything from a short paragraph!. Let me tell u my story and I ask you what I should do about it in the future. Me & this guy met 7 to 8 months ago, gelled right from the start right. He told me that he really liked me for my intellect, sense of humour and to have someone as a great companion. When we 1st met he didn't feel like he wanted anything too heavy etc. So that was cool, then we started getting closer and closer like best buddies as well as lovers. we started seeing each other even lived together.But during the process was being very indecisive and CONFUSED would be what I would call it! Every time we were together or movin on he would tell me that I was perfect him and that he felt that I was the one, but he is confused as he didn't know if he wanted anything serious or heavy!!